The moment you resist, you go against the natural flow of existence. When you resist anything or anyone in its true nature, you unknowingly build a cage within the realm of existence and this is where you’ve already lost the game.

Freedom lies in the absence of resistance, and the mantra should be to ’not invest in resistance’. Solitude is found in experiencing the raw, being in tune with it rather than resisting its natural flow.

As Bukowski said:

“Don’t Try.”

People often misinterpret those two words. They’re not a call to nihilism but a Zen-like embrace of effortlessness, much like the principles of Taoism (one of my fav school of thought).